The secret to understanding men -- and using it to your advantage
by Bob Grant, L.P.C. - "The Relationship Doctor"

When it comes to your relationships with men, which of the following do you find yourself saying? 

 -"Why didn't he call?"
 -"How can I find the right man?
 -"Why do I always date losers?
 -"Why doesn't he love me anymore?
 -"What am I doing wrong?
 -"Why do some women have great relationships with men -- and mine are always dull, unfulfilling and boring?
-"If only I could understand men...."

If you checked one or more of the above, then the following article may be the most eye-opening one you'll ever read. 

The important thing to remember is that you're not alone.  Most women -- whether single or married -- have asked themselves these kinds of questions.  In my 16 years of relationship counseling, I've found that the reason women have these concerns is because they simply don't understand men.

Did you know ... that you as a woman, by virtue of your femininity, have in your hands the delicious power to make a man fall in love with you, influence a man to your way of thinking, bring him to his knees, make him want to spend his life with you -- and want to fulfill your every desire? 

Yes, it's true!  And the best part is that you can do it easily and effortlessly by being yourself -- and NOT shaping yourself into someone you're not just to keep your man interested.  I'll give you solid proof of this in a moment.

When you read this article in its entirety, you'll discover how to tap into the power that resides within you -- whether you want to revolutionize your dating life, get married or spark the fire within your marriage.
 

Who Am I -- and Why Should You Believe Me?

My name is Bob Grant.  I've been a Licensed Professional Counselor, therapist, and relationship coach for 16 years.  The majority of my clients are women, who have sought my help in creating successful, satisfying, and fulfilling love relationships by simply understanding men.

More than the certificates and licenses I've accumulated over the years, I take most pride in the number of wedding invitations I receive from my clients who've found wonderful relationships as a result of my relationship advice.  I've also saved dozens of marriages from disaster, dissolution -- and just plain boredom.

That's why I'm called "The Relationship Doctor."  I have the prescription for finding love, keeping passion alive, and reigniting relationships that have lost their spark.  

The method I'm about to reveal to you is not based on theory, guesswork or the "psycho-babble" that's disseminated by pop psychologists, self-help books and women's magazines.  Unlike other resources that claim to help you understand men, my strategy is based on real-life feedback from thousands of real-life women who tried my method and found that it produced a dramatic difference in their relationships with men.

Now, you can find out what my method can do for you.  Whether you're ...

•  a single woman who wants to attract the right man -- or add romance to
             your dating life

• a woman who dates frequently, but finds it hard to sustain a relationship
             with a man;

•  a woman who wants to be married but can't seem to persuade the man
             in your life to pop the question; or 

• a married woman who wants to spark the fire within your marriage and
             enjoy deeper intimacy with your husband
  
  ... you'll discover the secret that will make you radiate like a warm and glowing campfire -- and give you an aura that men will find absolutely irresistible.
   

How to Be the Woman Men Adore ... and Never Want to Leave

Have you ever met the kind of woman ...

• that men fall hopelessly in love with
• with whom men want to spend all their time
• whom men want to please and do anything for
• who brings out the romantic and passionate side of a man; and
• to whom men want to give everything?

What special quality, trait, or personality does this woman have that attracts men like a magnet, makes men powerless in her hands, and makes them want to spend their lives with her?

I've personally met many women like this -- and here's the startling observation I've made:  These women are not necessarily the most beautiful, the tallest, the smartest, the one with the most gorgeous hair, sexy legs or the most ample breasts, as one might think!

A look back in history reveals the likes of ...

     ... homely divorcée Wallis Simpson, for whom the Duke of Windsor abdicated
         the throne of England;
     ... the early-twentieth-century French writer Colette (described as having
         a "frightful" appearance), who managed to have numerous male conquests;  
     ... Martha Gellhorn, the plain-looking scholar for whom Ernest Hemingway 
         became love-sick and never recovered;
     ... Mumtaz, for whom the Emperor Shah Jahan built the Taj Mahal; and
     ... Camilla Parker Bowles, who won the heart of Prince Charles.

And then, of course, there's Heather Mills, who in spite of her prosthetic leg, managed to capture the heart of, and later marry, Paul McCartney.  Although handicapped, Heather had turned down many marriage proposals from other men before marrying Paul.

These kinds of women know the secret to creating magic with men.  And here's the good news for you -- if you're like most women who struggle with relationship challenges.  The ability to create magic with men is NOT really magic at all.  It’s a skill which can be learned by any woman -- and that includes you!

Before I tell you how to acquire that secret skill (which already resides inside you, though dormant), let me ask you a question:

Why Do Most Women Struggle in Their Relationships with Men?

There are many reasons why women have relationship challenges, but as I mentioned before, the main reason is that women simply don't understand men.  If a woman really understood men, she'd know how to effortlessly attract men like a magnet, make men powerless in her hands, have them treat her like a queen, and give her everything her heart desires. 

The main obstacle women face in their effort to understand men is that they turn to all the wrong things:  They seek advice from their girlfriends, who are just as clueless as they are in figuring men out; and they read dime-store relationship advice from women's magazines.

If you're like most women, you probably love talking to your girlfriends about your relationship troubles, and -- yikes! -- asking them for relationship advice.  Unless your girlfriend happens to be a professional relationship advisor, who has counseled many couples towards successful relationships -- and unless she herself has a successful relationship with a man (very important!) -- it's unwise to take relationship advice from your girlfriend (or your mother, sister, cousin or aunt, for that matter).

By all means, seek the listening ear of a girlfriend if you simply want to unburden -- and if talking to your girlfriend makes you feel better.  But always remember that talking to your girlfriends (as depicted accurately in the once-popular Sex and the City TV series), fosters deeper and better friendships with your girlfriends -- but does nothing to improve your relationships with men.

Now, don't get me wrong.  Some of your girlfriends might indeed have the wisdom to give you good advice  -- but that advice will almost always be based only on their own limited experience and observation.  Just because your girlfriend has had an experience similar to yours doesn't mean her advice applies to your situation. 

I chuckle every time I remember the story of a woman who spent hours on the phone with her girlfriend discussing why her boyfriend was giving her the silent treatment, and what she might have done to provoke it, and what she could do to get him talking again.  All the while, her boyfriend was just not in a talkative mood because he was worrying that the carburetor in his car wasn't working right!

Just goes to show how little women know about men!

Everything You Ever Learned About How to Attract and Keep a Man
is Wrong!

There's another insidious thing masquerading as relationship advice for women -- and that is, women's magazines.  Women's magazines teach women how to look, be and act around men -- and only serve to impress other women, propagate poor self-image, and show women how to "hook" a man by being everything but themselves.  Sadly, most of the relationship tips that women's magazines give were written by women for women -- and they don't enable women to understand men at all.

What if I told you that you could make a man adore you just by being yourself?

Yes, you don't have to be anything but yourself.  There's just one condition.  You also have to understand what a man wants.

Will Giving a Man What He Wants Get You What You Want?

My answer is a resounding "Yes!"

Here's the big secret.  Men want to be enraptured by a woman.  They may not admit it openly, but they want to be lured, finessed, bewitched, possessed and seduced by a woman -- and they don't mind surrendering to her siren maneuverings and be rendered powerless by her.  A man would  gladly give anything to the woman who can make him feel good.

Unfortunately, most women simply don't know how to make a man feel good.  Believe it or not, the majority of women have the mistaken notion that learning a few sexual tricks and bedroom stunts from Cosmo and the Kama Sutra, or cooking him sumptuous meals "better than Mama ever made" ought to do the trick -- and their man would stay devoted to them forever. 

That's an outdated mode of thinking derived from the old wives' tale that says "The best way to a man's heart is through his stomach" -- or his crotch, in most instances.  If that were true, then sex therapists, prostitutes and professional chefs would have the best marriages, wouldn't they?

There's so much more to making a man feel good than meets the eye. 

Seduction is 99% Mental Sorcery

While a woman's sexual skills and good cooking are always appreciated by men, seduction is 99% mental sorcery.  Over the years, I've wanted to teach this and other powerful relationship principles to more than just the female clients who are able to travel to my office in Georgia for relationship counseling.
  
So I devised a way to share my relationship principles so that women all over the world can learn to understand men and develop successful relationships with them – no matter where they live!  So I've written a 119-page e-book titled The Woman Men Adore...and Never Want to Leave, wherein I reveal all the details of how you can entice a man, make him fall in love with you, and give you the world -- just by using closely guarded secrets that I've compiled over the last 16 years. 

For example, on page 114, I reveal a very powerful technique that every woman (who wants to know how to inspire her man to consistently search for ways to please her) can use.  It works like a charm.  All you have to do is say 3 sentences to him -- I give the exact word-for-word "script".  Once you say those words, it's like effortlessly casting a spell over him.  He won't be able to get you off his mind -- and will look for every opportunity to please you.

Wouldn't you want to know what those 3 sentences are?

And if you think that's exciting, wait till you see all the other mouth-watering secrets I reveal in The Woman Men Adore...and Never Want to Leave.  Take a sneak peek below: 

• 5 things men crave that women don't know about -- Nothing in the world is more exhilarating for a man than these -- and if you give them to him, you'll have his undying devotion.  (See pages 109-115)

• The main reason why men choose to get married (or stay married) to a particular woman.  This can be summed up in 5 words.  Carve these words in your heart and never forget them. (See page 22)

• The powerful ability a woman possesses that causes men to be interested in her -- even if she isn’t the tallest, smartest, or the most beautiful woman around.  Not even looks, sex appeal, money, power, or prestige rate as high as this ability when it comes to making yourself irresistible to men -- and you can easily have it with a little practice. (See page 35)

• Do you know what's the No. 1 "man repellant" in existence?  Ignore this and you'll make him feel incapable of being your hero.  This could very well be a major reason as to why "he's just not that into you."  (See page 29)
   

• How to speak in a way that hypnotizes a man into feeling safe so that he'll allow you to influence him with no resistance.  (See page 18)
   

• How to be yourself and still be loved by a man – I'll show you how to find the courage to be imperfect and be loved in spite of it -- and teach you how to remove the “layers’ that keep a man from knowing and loving you.  (See page 66)
   

• Pinpoint exactly what you’re doing that makes men NOT want to be close to you.  How to tell if you're unknowingly sending off a signal that says "You can only get this close, and that's it."  (See page 10)
   

• How to make a man do what you want him to do – and make him think it was his idea!  (See page 24).
   

• How to influence or shape your man's opinion with the power of words -- even if he doesn’t see the need to change.  How you influence him will affect his behavior toward you -- for better or for worse.  (See page 100)
   

• Discover the secret to making a man feel understood by you.  Master this secret and you can ask your man for almost anything, and he’d be willing to give it.  (See page 97)
   

• How to use your femininity to disarm a man, break down his defenses -- and turn him into a caring and sensitive man you've always wanted.  (See page 3)
   

• How to master the art of perfect timing to get what you want in a relationship.  (See pages 98-99)
   

• Why you should not compete with your man -- and when to allow your man to be your superior.  Even when you're capable of being his equal, trying to be his equal in certain areas will drive him away, and won’t lead to the intimacy you crave.  (See page 76)
   

• How to use your innate feminine power to make a man powerless to resist you.  This is what separates women that men fall in love with from those that men ignore and take for granted.  (See page 5)

• The things a woman does that makes a man shut down and feel alienated from her.  If you're doing these things, you may be sabotaging your relationship.  (See page 36)
   

• The kiss of death in a relationship -- and how to avoid it.  (See page 99)
   

• The ultimate secret that will give you more influence with men than you've ever imagined.  This might sound silly -- but it works like magic when it comes to persuading men to your way of thinking.  (See page 80) 

• The part of your body that serves as a strong elixir, which men want to be held captive to.  No, it's not your breasts, legs or derrière.  Use this part of your body to the hilt and you'll have him wrapped around your little finger.  (See page 113)
   

• How to make a man feel cherished by you, and as a result, he will want to spend more time with you and want to be around you more.  (See page 97)
   

• Why some women drive away good men or continually pick losers – How to tell the difference between impulses and feelings, so that you'll never again allow the intensity of impulses guide you to a poor choice in men.  (See page 39)
   

• How to be strong by being vulnerable - Women who know how to use vulnerability as a relationship device are always astonished by the impact they make on a man.  (See page 11)
   

• How to determine if you have “barbed wire around your heart” – and how to let that defensive weapon down and allow a man to love you.  (See page 52-54)

• How to take advantage of a man's natural predisposition to make him do everything possible to make you happy.  (See page 74)
   

• What do men really find attractive about a woman?  A survey of hundreds of men reveals that it's not a woman's breasts, legs or derrière that they always consider more attractive.  It's something you already have, and when you crank it up to mega-watt brilliance, you'll maximize your sex appeal.  (See pages 34-35)
   

• The No. 1 problem that couples face.  This problem is like a cancer that permeates all other areas of your life -- and I show you 3 ways to overcome it.  (See page 46) 

• Why Men Don’t Listen – The "Reflective Listening" technique you can do that will make a man eagerly listen to what you’re saying as if it were pure gold.  (See pages 106-107)
   

• The 4 words that all women should memorize in order to have successful relationships with men.  These words point to a fundamental difference between men and women that you must never forget.  (See page 16)
   

• The "Truth List" Exercise - A magical technique for uncovering the special qualities that men (and people in general) find attractive in you.  This will enable you to allow those qualities to surface -- thereby boosting your confidence along the way.  Men find confidence absolutely  sexy!  (See pages 62-63)
   

• How not to let your past hurts sabotage your chance of having successful relationships.  (See page 9)

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